A gentleman recently asked me why I call myself a Fetish Kinkstress.
If you pop over to my fetish page, you will see a list that is quite extensive. Many, many different fetishes that I dabble in and am versed in.
In my experience, half of the men that seek out to serve me, are not really submissive/slave types, but more the fetish lovers.
Kinky folks who have no other way to get their kink on.
They figure seeking out a Dominatrix would be the ideal road to travel because we tend to know things other than just the “vanilla”.
I am a Femdom [Female Dominant] and being a Dominatrix/Kinkstress is my craft. I spent many years watching, studying, learning, researching and doing my craft.
Definition of craft
1. 1: skill in planning, making, or executing : dexterity
2. 2a : an occupation or trade requiring manual dexterity or artistic skill <the carpenter’s craft><the craft of writing plays> <crafts such as pottery, carpentry, and BDSM>b plural : articles made by craftspeople <a store selling crafts> <a crafts fair>
3. 3: skill in deceiving to gain an end <used craft and guile to close the deal>
4. 4: the members of a trade or trade association
I have refined my skills in many different fetishes to help you out in your time of need. Aren’t you so lucky? You are welcome!
But do realize my craft is also how I make a living. I do things other ladies do not. This is why you seek Me out.
You, yourself do not work for free. Whatever you do, you would be livid if someone screwed you out of money for time you put in.
You lil boys are not entitled to a damn thing, especially when your dick is hard.
Just because you make me laugh and drink toilet water because I said so, does not make you any more special than the 20 others whom will do the same thing for me and pay me.
Those boys know they have not found anyone to indulge them, so they seek out one whom has the special skill set to give them a journey, mind, body, and soul!
Respect me enough to know that you were seeking ME. You wanted something in your life that no one was giving you.
Respect yourself enough to know that your therapy and balance is important to you, and save money for it. Skip the lattes and movies boys. Skip the gym membership! There is no shame in spending on your well being.
I am a kink specialist, a kink enthusiast, and I do love and enjoy it. But my time is not FREE. Paying for My time is also NOT FINANCIAL DOMINATION.
Yes I do indulge in the fetish of financial domination / wallet raping / rinsing as well, but gifting my time is not the same.
If there is something that you might be interested in, but it is not listed on my fetish page do ask. I have some things I left off because I do not do them often, or I simply do not enjoy them.
If we will not be compatible, I will tell you, and if possible I will refer you to a Domme whom might have more interest in what you are seeking.
If you are truly submissive/slave and seeking to serve, then your fetishes are not important anyway. True story!
What makes your dick hard, and what gives you pleasure are second to mine. This includes the statement that I hear uttered so often, it pleases me to please you.
If you were a true sub/slave you would understand how that phrase is still wrong. You are still telling me what pleases you, and that is again secondary to mine.
Now ask yourself, which are you, A kinkster? Or a sub/slave? Looking for a fantasy? or reality?
If you come to me with a list of everything you like and want, then I know what your service is all about.
If you come to Me and say, I have sent tributes for your time, I want nothing more than to serve you. Then I know what your service is about.
Don’t be foolish and think that I can not tell the difference from the 2!
No matter if you are a kinkster or a sub/slave, it is still My world. I run the show, I call the shots.
Now, who is next to play with Me and My craft? [Sweevil Grin]
Very well written Mistress V and I can’t wait to learn your craft
ahhh my wilamina, yes it will come fast, but you won’t HA….. get a calandar and a pretty marker to keep track till you get here!
Why thank you bboy,
What is a sissy slut to do when SHe is away from her mistress?
Sissy misses her mistress so badly that it aches. Sissy thanks of her often and can hear her whispers and her laugh, smell her scent, feel her touch, her lash, her collar and lease, along with the ecstasy of her touch on hot, red skin and the exquisite feeling of her push and tug using the strap-on.
Mistress is doing all she can in order to ensure that the pain of separation is not too deep. Mistress encourages her sissy slut to shop for new cloths, helps on skype selecting the proper bra and panties, she has very good taste. She encourages her sissy to buy new toys and is so kind as to play with her slut on-line.
Sissy uses her new toy, a suction cup dildo that is stuck to the door frame, dressed up pretty in her new bra and panties. It is so good to hear the mistresses commands once again, to sense that she is there, if only virtually, to listen to her whisper and encourage and command. Oh¸ this offers some relief from the anxiety of separation.
Sissy goes to her web site to see her pictures, to read her comments and stories, to read again all that is available about mistress. Flipping through pictures is gratifying as I do not want to forget her features, her smile, her hair, her eyes, and her body. Here I can fantasize and remember the times spent with her and imagine the times to come.
It will be 8 more weeks until I will be back with my mistress, 8 more weeks until I will see her smile at her sissy slut, dressed up pretty for her, body aching for the pain, the pleasure, seeking the sensations of domination, submission. I look forward to the joy of being able to really be me, 100% me, without judgment, only acceptance and encouragement, I know who I am, I am Mistress V’s sissy slut. She makes my life so much better. I keep this in my mind as I think 8 more weeks.
Ms V, I have to say your wide range of interests has always amazed me.
You seem to be able to wonder through time spent with those of us fortunate enough to to talk to you & pick & choose pieces of those interests that leave me thunderstruck each & every time.
That you have such ability should not be lost on those who want to book some of your time. Surely offering a tribute for that kind of experience is so well worth it I can’t imagine why anyone would not!!