The other night, a new sub had scheduled some time with Me, and then proceeded to stand Me up.
Over a day later he emailed saying, blah blah, bad weather, blah blah some excuse, blah blah.
He must have been snowed in at a remote location with zero technology for over 24 hrs. I call bullshit!
I loathe excuses, especially when they come in an untimely manner.
He then says he is sorry and he will take his punishment of Me jamming My feet in his face.
Awwwww the foot/shoe/boot sub wants to tell Me how to punish him, and with something he loves!
He must still be under the delusion that blond means lacking in intelligence.[Laughs]
The clue phone is ringing son, time to answer it!
I will not punish you with the very thing you crave. I do not reward bad behavior. Giving you the reward as punishment means you learn NOTHING, and the behavior will continue because you get what you want anyway.
Not in My world. In my world, if you fuck up, I will make sure you remember why you should not do that. I will make an impact on your damn brain in some way, so as not to repeat the offense. It gets worse if you did not learn, and become a repeat offender.
I recently had a new sub here to visit Me. The normal limits, and no Mistress I do not like pain, blah blah, trailing off, blah blah, delicate, blah.
But he had fucked up, and he got his ass warmed. Ohhh the dread on his face was wonderful. It was not what he liked, but he got it anyway.
See how this works?
If you come in to My world, and I train you, I will do it correctly. You will also learn to make Me a priority.
If you get caught in an 8 hour rain storm, when you notify people you are now safe and life is good, I should be in the list to call or email right up there with the family. Especially if you had an appointment with Me.
So boys, you should remember to make Me a priority, because how I impact your mind and body, good or bad, depends on you.
Punishment means punishment, reward means reward. Do not confuse or cross the two.
Oh and never tell Me how to punish you, I do not need your help. I am not the New kid on the block, I can punish you in ways you can not even dream of lil man. I’m a big girl now, I got this. [Evil Smirks]
I am sure he is reading this, I was not kidding when I said start with a gift from My wishlist!
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Where to start to add a comment. Mistress is kind and caring & wants to know you are ok. But I once wrote she is wickedly smart & can see an excuse or line coming all the way.
I think it now simply works so much better to say “Mistress I screwed up, I know I did…. How can I make it right”? You may not avoid what punishment you have coming, but you MAY start to make it right with her.
Just remember guys, she is a domme and a very good one & that applies in all manners you can think of. That is the only hint you need.