The other day I heard a phrase I have heard numerous times over the years.
The male specimen trying to earn time to serve Me, says to Me, you don’t look like a Domme. You are stunningly beautiful, but not at all like a Domme.
How skilled was he to be able to get all that information about Me just from My appearance. [Eye roll]
Of course the statement always amuses Me , so I have to ask, “what does a Domme look like?”
This male type could not answer directly. He said You just don’t have the look, not mean or something.
Laughing at him, I said it must be because I am not dressed in a full Dominatrix type outfit, after all we were at a coffee shop.
Clearly he has the fantasy of a leather or latex clad woman kicking his ass. The stereotypical idea of what a Dominatrix does.
I have written about stereotypes, and the dominant female, but maybe I missed a few points.
In a session, items of fetish wear can and normally are worn. Of course that is all part of the theatrical experience.
But take away the bells and whistles, I am still a Femdom.
At the grocery store pushing a cart, still a dominant Female.
Naked in the shower, yup still one then.
Wearing jeans and a t shirt, still one then too!
Oh and I look pretty fucking hot in jeans with My strap on in place.
I don’t need all the fluff to rule you, it is just a delicious bonus. [Smiles]
