I have this huge pet peeve, and it has to do with the use of the word slave.
I hear on the daily how someone wants to be my slave, in real life, not fantasyland.
The funny part is there is usually another word in front of the word slave, like to mean they are a slave for something.
For example, My foot slave, or my ass slave.
Now, first lets clarify what a slave is, see below
noun
historical
1. 1.
a person who is the legal property of another and is forced to obey them.
synonyms:
historicalserf, vassal, thrall; Moreverb
1. 1.
work excessively hard.
“after slaving away for fourteen years, all he gets is two thousand”Now lets not forget slavery,
noun
1.
the state or condition of being a slave; a civil relationship whereby one person has absolute power over another and controls his life, liberty,and fortune
2.
the subjection of a person to another person, esp in being forced into work
3.
the condition of being subject to some influence or habit
4.
work done in harsh conditions for low pay
No where in the definitions does it say the person can pick and chose in what way and capacity they will be a slave.
Do not come to me and say you will be an ass slave, or a busy work slave.
Right out the gate we will get off on the wrong foot. You coming to me and dictating the capacity of slavery is absurd.
If I grant you the privilege of being an ass slave, or a foot slave, boot slave, starbucks slave, or even my hair slave, do know it is a privilege.
You should be excited I gave you a little something extra to care for in addition to your ALL ENCOMPASING slave duties.
I appoint you, you do not determine.
A slave is still a slave even when the penis is not hard!
I will make you jerk off 5 times in a row so you have zero desire with additional genital pain, then have you go do some hard labor for me just so you get what slavery is! M’kay?
So now that we clarified that, are you asking to be my submissive, or my slave? [Grins]
Mistress V is, as always, correct in her assessment of submission vs. slavery. Clearly no one would summit to being a complete slave if one was in there right mind. Slavery is all encompassing, without limits, without personal boundaries, the slave owner is in complete control of all things, including your life, weather you live or die. And if one is truly a slave there are no qualifies. Period. If you could find a real life slave and ask them if that life is their choice, I dare speculate, they’d resoundingly say no and get me out of this hell that I’m in.
So what we are really talking about here is elective and selective submission. I am submissive when I choose and to whom I choose, and to the level that I choose. Hence the use of a safe word, oh and you have to have complete trust in the right person. I choose to be tied up, I choose to be spanked, I choose to be flogged, I choose to be plugged. I choose to worship my human goddess as I please. I do give up control, and I might endure things that I’d not normally for the experience, for the thrill, for the fulfillment of some hidden or not so hidden desire, and in order to please. But make no mistake a choice is much different than being owned 100% and having no choice and no out in your daily life.
I love being a sissy slut and sub for my mistress Ms. V. I am safe with her, I am free with her, I am complete with her. I bow to her will. Is this slavery, I thank not, but it is heaven.
Wilamina
and soooooon you will see Me again wilamina!
It is truly an interesting & rewarding experience to be one if Mistress V’s subs. There are a few points I think that may help those reading this.
If you never learn to give in to a Dom you will never learn that where she takes you, isn’t Nesc where you thought you would be. You can never do that if you just say here is what I (as a sub-slave wants). I am several things to mistress… Some days her Pet, others her panty boy.
So a little secret to those reading…. The fantasy V’s reality story… Calling a phone ‘mistress’ and picking a fetish off the list & buying X min may do it for you….. Fantasy can be ordered like that..real life not so much. But a REAL dominatrix is a bit different…. Mistress V certainly is.. Come to her …it is all about serving her in how she sees. Try it you will be surprised… I was…:)