In My last post, I went over the diffference between being a submissive and being a slave.
It was brought to My attention that I never actually said how to become one of My personal boys.
Not just a client, but “MY SLAVE“.
I am asked so often, how do I become your personal slave? Normally that is followed by, I do not want to pay for services. [eye roll]
Or this one, I want to worship you but have nothing to offer but myself, and that should be enough Mistress [gag]
Lets not forget this one, and this one happens A LOT, I can move to you, I do not take up much room. You can decide when or if I sleep, eat, go to the bathroom. I will be your chained slave. [Laughs]
First of all, the last statement makes you sound like a free loading bum whom wants a free ride, not a slave.
Second, A slave WORKS for ME. Not just chained up in an imaginary dungeon, in the imaginary castle that I do not own.
Stepping back to reality, from your fantasy land, again, life happens. Bills happen.
If you want 24/7 care so you don’t have to think ever, I am sure they have homes for that, and it is not in mine.
I want a sub/slave that is motivated to make my life better in all areas, again not just when your dick is hard.
Femdom yes, but I am a Professional Dominatrix, and Fetish Kinkstress. Lets not forget a fantastic telephone Domina, and Goddess too.
I have clients, some I see in real life, others I do not.
The ones I do see, it is because they have shown the interest in serving Me, shown how they can be an asset to my life.
There are Subs/slaves whom earned privileges of serving me beyond the Mistress/client relationship.
The keyphrase is, they earned it.
They earned it by booking sessions for a fee, had continued service without complaint. Some may even offer a service that might be of value to Me, My life, and My well being.
Bottom line is I decide. Its My show. I say who, I say when.
I can’t and won’t play with every slave or submissive who wants to play with me for free. For some reason so many of you feel entitled to that.
If I have a little causal banter with you, feel lucky and thankful. Next time I may not feel so nice.
Again you are not ENTITLED to anything and I am not required to even acknowledge your existence. Remember there are more guys like you looking for a Domme, than Dommes.
You better stick out, stand out, and shine bright like a fucking diamond to draw attention to yourself. Otherwise you are like the 50 others wanting the same things as you, and you all just blend together.
I prefer to spend My time with loyal and devoted subs/slaves who see the true value in Me, what I do, and offer.
Now who is next to submit at my feet?
You never know, you just might EARN a spot as one of My personal boys!
What the mistress is describing sounds a lot like marriage. One may get disparaged, trod on (not one’s will nor very much fun), offered nothing in return. Providing all and receive nothing. It is kind of like owning a pet (you know a dog or cat type of pet), the master provides all, cleans up after all their messes, gives affection and attention, and may get a little in return, but the pet basically has an easy life.
In reality slaves work hard to provide exactly what the master demands; has no rights and receives nothing in return only a hellish existence, hum, again kind of like marriage. Fantasy-land is only in one’s head and usually has no basis in reality.
My reality is that I hope to serve my mistress and please her when I am able. I gift her when I can and desire to receive a smile and pat on the head (metaphorically). When I am with her and receive euphoria from her paddle, her crop, her flogs, her strap on, her touch and her whispers, I am living my fantasy. Mistress is fulfilling me, I acquiesce to her, it is a symbiotic relationship, she gives what she pleases in pain, torture, touch, or pleasure at her desire, and I gladly receive these gifts that are granted to me, her sissy slut. I go to her for these things, because they are things I like, she provides them because these are things she likes. Our desires are mutual and mutually beneficial, we fulfill each other, and this is the way of life and of nature.
Don’t get me wrong she is in complete control and provides only what she desires and I am so desperately happy to receive, she is the top and I am the bottom (so to speak), it is a pleasure to hear her laugh and smile and she does things to me that thrill and complete me. Am I her slave? If slave to my desires that she fulfills, then yes. But I go out of my way to provide tribute and gifts for her in order to thank her for selecting me as her sissy slut, her sub, her Wilamina. And because of this I am truly blessed. I thank you mistress.
Wilamina
I do love that I make you think wilamina! You are welcome my sissy.
Very nice and i hope that one day i will have the opportunity to be at your feet learning more from you as you guide me to become a better sub pet or whatever you want me to be
well puppy boy, you just might, if you can keep your mouth shut and meet when I say!
Ms V, It is really a privilege to be one of your xxxx (Insert the relative name of the day…it may change). To be yours & be able to serve you mistress really is a privilege.
Now to reinforce what Mistress V says…it is about her. The rewards are many but not Nesc about what you think. You get challenged to be a better person…. while serving her. Manners count.
Pleasing her is what matters to me.
Thank you bboy!, today I will just say, you are indeed a good pet