One of the phrases I hear damn near daily is, I want to try this, or do that, but I am not gay, or bi. I’m straight!
The other phrase is I am not sub but, or I am a Dom., but……..[Eye roll]
I feel like kicking some boxes today, and burning some stereotyped labels.
Lets use our own minds today, shall we? I insist!
Are ya ready?
I’m going deep, m’kay?
Did you know that you do not have to be a Dom/Domme to want to kick some ass?
You can be just a Sadist
You can be a Dom/Domme who likes to receive pain.
You can be just a masochist
You can like both pleasure and the pain
You can be a Sadomasochist.
You do not have to be submissive to like discipline.
You can be a submissive who likes to deliver pain.
You can be kinky without being Dom/Domme or Sub.
You can enjoy sex without feeling bad
You can like ass play and not be gay.
You can suck a dick and still be straight.
You can be just a top for kink play
You can be just a bottom for kink play
Being a Dom/Domme does not mean you are only strong.
Being a Dom/Domme does not mean you are not caring.
Being a Submissive does not mean you are weak.
Being Submissive does not mean you are submissive to EVERYONE
Primal urges are natural.
Being kinky does not make you a deviant.
Loving certain fetishes does not devalue you.
What does devalue you is trying to put people in special boxes, affixing a label to them, to suit your own psyche.
Whatever freak flag you have in your own closets, fly that bitch high.
Fuck the labels, Do YOU!
FYI, just in case you might be unaware, when you are with me, no labels or titles of any kind matter.
All I see is a stripped bare, vulnerable human animal. A blank canvas.
It is my theater after all.
The only label/title that matters then is “yes Mistress”. [Smiles]
Oh Ms V, this does take me back a bit to before I met you. You have taught me many of those lessons…..opened my eyes to others.
And now it is both far easier & indeed preferred to just kneel and feel the privilege of being able to say “yes mistress”.
Yes I sometimes wonder about those picking this or picking that topic or fetish out…. BUT at some point you do realize you really are not serving anyone.
Being able to to say Yes Mistress to YOUR Mistress, who has given you the privilege of using that term….who is real & chooses where she wants to go……yes that is real…. not fantasy.