The Mistress Affect

I was scrolling through one of My social feeds, and came across something that another Professional Femdom/Mistress posted that caught My eye.

She had posted the word Mistress, and two definitions of what the word means, according to google.

mis·tress
ˈmistris/

1. 1.
a woman in a position of authority or control.
“she is always mistress of the situation, coolly self-possessed”

2. 2.
a woman having an extramarital sexual relationship, especially with a married man.
“Elsie knew her husband had a mistress tucked away somewhere”

She agreed with the first meaning, but did not like the second one.

I chuckled because both definitions are true, and the second one does not bother Me because, again it is pretty accurate.

First, yes I am a Woman of power and authority, OK check.

Second, MOST of the men that come to ME are in fact married. No I do not have sexual intercourse with the men [Insert Bill Clinton Tone]  However, there is sexual energy, and definite mentalcourse going on. So by extension it is a sexual relationship. Yup Check

That does make Me the other woman so to speak, and I am OK with that. I know when we have our time, I am THE ONE. I truly don’t want to keep their husbands and boyfriends, I use them, train them, balance them. After I am done, I can send them away.

He is better in ways than before, and he can go back to his life and maybe he has learned something new to keep a happy wife. Yes, you know that thing you like that he does? Yea I taught him that! You’re welcome [grins]

I am not in denial about what the situation is, I am almost always the “secret”.  Some might say I am a home wrecker, others a home saver,  it is all about perspective.

This is what I call the Mistress affect, helping to make the world a better place, one male at a time!