Normally we women can tell the difference between a serious sub type, vs a kinky man with a hard dick.
Unfortunately more often than not, the man does not understand the difference, or the lines are blurred, and they do not care.
It seems when the dick gets hard, some just don’t know how to formulate a sentence, nor do they understand respect. Or if they do, it goes out the window.
I can not speak for the other ladies, but myself, I get a nice amount of emails and chat requests on the daily and some of them are just jaw dropping.
The first sentence might say, “I am submissive, and want to serve”, then it just goes downhill.
Here is one example. {I have so so many}
“Mistress, you look so hot in that picture. Your shiny ass in black latex, I want to cum on it.”
Wow, hello, do I know you? Have we spoke before?
“No but I want a Mistress.”
Where in what universe does you telling me how you want to cum on my ass get you a Mistress/Domme/Goddess to serve?
Then this, ” oh did I say something wrong, why wont you talk to me”
Seriously?
Fishing for abuse is not going to get you anywhere with Me. I am betting not far with most the ladies.
Rule of thumb, if you were standing in front of me, would you say it? If the answer is no, don’t type it.
Trust when I say if you said that to my face right after meeting me, you would see my ass as it walked away, or I would high five your face, depending on My mood, but that’s just me.
If you are just horny and kinky, just say so. If you are hunting for a fantasy, again just say so. Yes you are an adult, so act like one!
Honesty, respect, and self control should be used when you approach a Domme.
Otherwise, you are left alone, being ignored, while you sit in your computer chair with your dick in one hand and your cum rag in the other.
You don’t want to be that guy do you? [Evil Laughs]