I got an email from a man that was looking for a Mistress to serve, and he came across me.
He was happy that I looked like a normal Domme, unlike all the flashy others. I believe the phrase was, you do not look like you stepped from a magazine.
He told me my picture was beautiful, and then he said the phrase all Dommes love to hear [sarcasm dripping tone] “A REAL DOMME”.
The picture he was referring to was one I posted recently, of just me being all you know, “normal” and shit.
No fetish flash, no leathers, no latex. Matter of fact I think I was even wearing yoga pants!
My old website, I kept it all fetish, all dominatrix, probably to my own detriment, all the time.
Times have changed, and I think people need reminders, Dominatrices, are in fact people too.
We wear many hats, because there is so much more to us than the one dimensional view some of you have, get, or perceive.
I do enjoy the theatrical part of being a Dominatrix. The flashy, fetish diva. The Fetish Kinkstress.
Yes that means, leathers, and latex, and all kinds of sexy outfits and costumes, that I love.
But I do not sit in that shit 24/7. No one does, unless they are forced to do so! [Smiles]
Seriously, I live in Arizona, and fetish gear is not exactly the most cooling of clothing!
Whether I am dressed in full fetish gear, or not, one picture over the other does not make me anymore or less of a Domme.
His Mom must of forgot the lesson about judging people, ESPECIALLY by how they look!
Fun fact, I was dressed up in fetish gear earlier, and thought the guy who emailed me to tell me I LOOKED like a REAL Domme, was a tool.
I am now in shorts and a t shirt looking all “normal” as I am typing this, and I can say I still think he is a tool.
See what I did there? Hmmmm, now why would I do that?
It could be because whether I am The Normal Domme or Fetish Diva Dominatrix, My mind is still the same.
And he is still a tool no matter what way I am dressed!
As a side note, IRL, you do not need glitz and glam to instill obedience.
A simple look, and a hairbrush will do the trick.
Hey and guess what?
I can do that in yoga pants, a bathrobe, or better yet, NAKED! [Giggling madly]
Well if it helps I can vouch for everything this lady says….all true & I have gotten to experience it first hand, now for several years.
Yes she indeed can be exactly what is in the pictures. However having the privilege of being able to call her ‘Mistress’ for several years now I can also vouch she is very much the same person in non fetish clothing. She is a very beautiful woman as well but it is the tone of her voice….sometimes sweet, sometimes very dominant.
So yes she is very very real….. & everything you would expect or want in a dominatrix. Only my opinion of course ….but I will kneel before her every chance I get.
i love my own cheering section!